Moses

“Moses was one hundred and twenty years old when he died.  His eyes were not dim nor his natural vigor diminished.”  Deut. 34:7

Many people associate age with sickness, weakness, and mental deterioration.   It was not so with Moses.  He was 120 years old and his vision was still good and his body and mind strong.  I celebrated birthday number 62 last week and entered into what we call the “social security generation.”  I had mixed feelings.  I know what the Word said about Moses, and I know what the world says.

All the promises in the Bible are mine.  Moses was under the old covenant and had wonderful health and vigor.  He just went to be with the Lord.  I choose to claim that promise and not what the world offers–sickness, weakness, mental deterioration.  I received a beautiful card from Jerry and Denise Adamson that read, “And, in the end, it’s not the years in your life that count.  It’s the life in your years!”  Lord, let Your life shine through me.

Message for March 18, 2012

 IMPORTANCE OF HONOR IN MARRIAGE

Honor has power.  It is to value another person highly, to see them extremely important.  You value everything they do.  Honor is not earned.  It is a gift that is not contingent upon your emotions.

You give honor because you choose to give it and not because it is earned.  It is a decision you make.  “I choose today to honor my husband/wife because God wants me to honor them.”  In honoring them I let them know how valuable they are to me.  Honor is giving preference to others by attaching a high value to them–a cherished treasure.  The word honor carries with it the meaning of the way you treat royalty.  This is necessary to do regardless if they are hard to live with.

How do you honor someone who has not earned your honor?  Picture that person as being personally autographed by God.  Psalms 139:14 “You are fearfully and wonderfully made.”  You look for the good because God instilled His glory into each of us. 

It is easy to only see irritating habits, failures, and broken promises.  When we see people at their worst, we still show respect and honor.

You decide if someone is valuable.   Your feelings will follow.  Our feelings follow our beliefs and thoughts.  Your beliefs generate thoughts.  Thoughts create emotions, and emotions motivate behavior.   When you show poeple honor, they will begin to live up to it.